For many, the mere mention of Valentine's day elicits childhood memories of paper valentines and the chalky taste of message engraved candy hearts. And don't forget the dreamy thought of finding love on Valentine's day; "Will you be my valentine?" That's the line you're supposed to use on your would-be sweet heart when February 14 rolls around, if you'll remember. But what about those of us who have already found a valentine? How can we honor this holiday of love?
For those who have fulfilled their youthful search for a valentine, celebrating Valentine's day is more about cherishing love rather than seeking it. This time of year is beautiful because it rekindles feelings of devotion and helps us to remember how precious relationships with loved ones are. Thus, Valentine's day is an opportune time to recenter our focus on nurturing a healthy, fulfilling relationship. With this in mind, consider a few ways you can work together to achieve this end.
- Communicate openly about the progress of your relationship
- Actively identify strengths and areas in need of improvement
- Serve your significant other
- Remember their likes and dislikes
As Valentine's day approaches, take advantage of this season's natural focus on love as an opportunity to strive for a stronger relationship As you do, you may find that love is even better than you dreamed.